Guitar Lessons 4: A Change of Tactics

Oh hi, didn't see you there. Wondering where I've been? No, didn't think so, considering that only five people read this thing, and half those people are my parents. Apparently, I have some weird half-parent that makes up the .5 in my 2.5 parents. (See...because half of 5 isn't a whole number and...yeah....) Anyway, where was I? Oh yes, no one reads my blog.

Despite that being the case, I would say I've been making progress in this hobby I call "guitar playing." I do have a callus on my pinky, so that's one goal done.

Also, the G chord is a breeze now. I'm not perfect at it, but at least I'm as mediocre playing the G chord as I am playing all the other chords. So another goal is checked off.

And, the Ring of Fire? I'm..OK at it.... Actually my "Songs I Can Kind of Play" list has changed. These songs include and are limited to:

• You Belong With Me by Taylor Swift
• Mad World by Gary Jules
• You Can Do Better Than Me by Death Cab for Cutie
• Whole Wide World by Wreckless Eric
• Ring of Fire by Johnny Cash (it's last for a reason)

I've noticed the transitions between G and C are much easier, considering You Can Do Better Than Me is pretty much G and C over and over again. There's an A minor in there too.

Songs I've been working on:

• Hallelujah by Rufus Wainwright
• I Don't Believe You by P!nk (again, last for a reason)

Hallelujah is teaching me not only how to spell "Hallelujah" but also the much dreaded F chord. Yes ladies and gentleman, I am taking on my first barre chord. I'll hold for applause.**

Oh yeah, barre chords. They're difficult. I now question my right to call the G chord difficult now that I'm attempting the F chord. It's almost humorous. Haha. Yeah, so humorous. Tell that to my fingertips that still turn purple when I'm on the guitar for more than ten minutes.

Goals for next blog post? Um..how about:

• Don't sound so terrible when playing F chord
• Oh, and progress on those songs will be good too...

All right, it's signing out time. See my blog post below if you want to hear me ranting. Two blog posts in one night? Yeah..I went there. *high fives self*

I really need to get out more.

That's all I have to say. Peace out.

EDIT (3/29/11): OK, the song "Hallelujah" had too many F chords so I have switched to playing "Jar of Hearts" which has five or so F sharp chords, which is the same as F chords, only a fret higher. I'm progressing at it. Also, I've been playing the G chord with the wrong fingers this whole time. That wouldn't be a big deal except in "Jar of Hearts" the transition from G to G minor would be way easier if I was using the right fingers to play. So I'm working on that now too.






**Hey, have you ever noticed how the word "applause" looks really similar to the word "applesauce?" I confused the two words once and now every time I'm reading and I come to the work "applause" I think "applesauce." Anyway, what was I saying?

Things I'll Never Get: What is Success?

In order to fully understand this, you need to have an idea of what success is to you. When someone says, "He is a very successful man," what images or ideas is fill you mind? It depends on how you were raised, I suppose. It also depends on what country you live in. But in order to think about this, you need to already have an idea of success in your mind.

When the typical American thinks of a successful person, what usually comes to mind is a financially stable person with a good home and loving family. What I wonder is how many of those people actually exist. I know they're out there, but it seems like a lot of families has one of those aspects but lacks others. For example, financial stability usually requires long working hours for one or both parents. So this could easily mean that the child doesn't get the attention they require. Of course, if the child is older, that required attention goes unnoticed by them. If this older child grows without attention, they grow independently. This would be a good thing, except this child doesn't know it needs attention. Then when the parents want to have a "family day out," they dread it and are miserable the whole time. The parents may or may not know about this feeling the child has. They may try to hard to "make up for lost time," pushing the child further from them in the process, or they could let the child do what he or she wants. This makes the child happy, but now it doesn't have parental guidance because the child no longer wants it. When that is missing, the child goes to other sources for advice. Maybe they are reliable sources. Maybe not. Would this be considered a loving family? Is success reached?

Of course, you can't take the above scenario completely seriously. It is hypothetical. I know for a fact that not all children are totally unstable and are neglected by their parents. The point is, there are fewer and fewer instances of a typical "successful" American family. Looks are deceiving. 

But the ultimate question is: What is success?

All throughout my years in school, the first thing teachers tell you to do is follow your dreams, stand up for what you believe, etc. The funny thing is, is that as I got older, I realized my teachers had already picked my dreams and beliefs out for me.


Belief Number One: Money is essential.
Dream Number One: I want money.


Belief Number Two: A well-paying job is essential.
Dream Number Two: I must use my money to go through years of college to get this job.

Belief Number Three: Owning a nice house is essential.
Dream Number Three: I must save lots of my money from my well-paying job to get this nice house.

I didn't really see what the big deal was. Was any of it wrong? No. But I had different goals for myself. I was raised to think that what I want to do with my life is my decision. I never really understood why anything different than the above beliefs and dreams was considered a "waste of life" by some people. Is it so wrong?

This comes to the part that I don't get. Society is so hypocritical. Why in the world would you tell children to follow their dreams and do what they believe is right when you clearly already have the idea of "right" in your mind? And if these children decide to go against what you think is right, then it is suddenly wrong, which completely goes against what you just told them.

Perhaps I'm being too judgmental, I probably am. Usually what happens when I get worked up over something is I start venting to a person who thinks logically (pretty much anyone) and they find a hole in my logic and my rant fizzles out into oblivion, and I am left looking stupid. Still, I'd rather be stupid and informed later than being stupid and ignorant my entire life. I've met people who are like that. It's not a pretty sight. Especially since I occasionally meet the ignorant guy who thinks he is so much more right than you and spends his time debating something he clearly doesn't know anything about. Then when you prove him wrong, he refuses to believe it. Yeah, I really don't want to be that person.

Hypocrisy gets me all riled up I suppose. Although I would think I'd be used to it by now.